Don’t go into a marriage in search of happines. Marriage isn’t the place to find happiness. Marriage is struggles, hardship and difficulties, and that’s why it is a great blessing and one the gratest trials, for it is through struggle that we become stronger, wiser, and closer to Allah azza wajala. So don’t go into marriage hoping to find happines; go into marriage with the understanding that there will be fights, temper, and the greatest test of tour patience-all for the purpose of improving you as a Muslim. And that goal never has an easy path.
prophet Muhammad SAW (via artamawinular)